need to save my home and care for a disabled spouse

     I am a 41 year old wife and mom and I recently lost my job.....I have a disabled spouse and he has been in need of more care than normal as his symptoms are increasing and I was fired from my job as a result of that care.  We are now facing possible foreclosure on our home and I am desperately seeking assistance to save it!!  We need to find the right people to talk to about my being hired as his continued caretaker.  I have been his primary caretaker for many years now and he has complete trust in me.  He does not need skilled nursing of any kind at this point and I do not think he would allow a stranger in the home at this point.  We also have 4 boys still at home which are in need of the stability of both parents at home and not a stranger in there home.  I have worked hard for this family by holding down full time employment, continuing college(which has been set aside for this term), and keeping this family afloat as best I can.  Now it has come to the point to where I need help and don't know where to turn?...